Daughter Involved in Gay Relationship

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Dear Sharon,

As a mother, I can sympathize for the pain you are going through. There is so much garbage out there in this world and so many bizarre fixes for pain, it is not possible to protect our children from them all even though we would love to do so.

I do not know where your daughter stands with the Lord, but I do realize if she is a child of God, she does not know the Scriptures. Even though she may not listen to your words, I heavily suggest that you show her what the Scriptures says about homosexuality. Tell her this is what God thinks and not you making it up. As a parent, it is your obligation to God and to your child to tell her what the Word says. If you do not do this you will be accountable. You need to sit her down and tell her she can not even GO THERE! If she chooses to do so, you have done all you can do except stay on your knees before the Throne of God and pray for her repentance.

In I Cor. 6:9-11 "Or do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the Kindgom of God? Do not be deceived, neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor HOMOSEXUALS, nor theives, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, shall inherit the Kingdom of God."

The world spreads satan's lie that homosexualtiy is inborn. That is a lie straight from the pit of hell.
God would not make a person be born with a sin they could not repent of. If they were indeed born with that condition, there is no way they could have the strength to choose otherwise. I don't know about the world, but I do know my God is merciful and would not do that! In other words, homosexualtiy is a choice.
I once heard of a son asking his father, what is the meaning of life? The father's response was, "life is made up of the choices you make and the friends you keep." Truer words were never spoken.

As far as your daughter not having a boyfriend - the timing may not be right. God will send her the right guy in His timing and she is to wait for that timing! The choice she is making now definitely is- not God's will for her life now and the sooner she realizes the impact of the sin she is choosing the better. Our time on earth is only a dot in eternity and she needs to choose heaven, not hell! I suggest you make her get off facebook before word gets out and she has more offers from the wrong kind of people who do not know any better. May she have the courage to lead them to the scriptures. Ignorance is not always bliss.i

Other scriptures that pertain to homosexuality are:
Lev. 18:22, 20:13
Rom. 1:24-27
Rom. 1:32
I Kings 14:24, 15:12
2 Kings 23:7

There will be many homosexuals in heaven who has repented! That is all that it takes is repentance and turning from that sin! God wishes none to perish!

I will be praying for you and your daughter!

In Him,

Sandy