Please try not to get your self-idenity and worth from this young man who is letting you down. Iknow it is so easy to put all our eggs in one basket and expect this person to be the answer to all ourneeds but it just doesn't work thatway even in a marriage.
You have got to be the person God created you to be and not dependon a relationship to feel all the voids. I am sure if you would take a list of your strengths youwould see that you do pretty goodon your own. How many years did you live without this person and still had a life for yourself.
Evidently this is not the person God has chosen to be your mate so keep looking even though it is causing great heartache and depression.
I look back on some of the relationships and actually cringe when I think I could have ended up with them as my mate.
If he doesn't bring the best of you before marraige, it cerainly won't happen afterwards.
Move on to greener pastures. Be yourself and let the Lord feel your needs. He does a much better job of it because He knows what you need before you need it.
About Me
- Sandy Denton, Girlfriends Mentor
- Sandy can prove there is life after cancer, for she became a victim of this disease at the age of eighteen. She tells others, “If I would have died, I would have gone straight to hell because I did not have a clue that Jesus died for me.” Sandy is now a teacher, speaker and certified personality trainer who wants to bring women hope. As a graduate of women’s ministries, Sunday School and Bible teacher, her heart’s desire is to help and encourage hurting women in our world today. She wants to do more than just hand them a Band-Aid. She wants to write kindness, love, and mercy on their hearts, and give rest to their weary souls. Sandy was a military wife for twenty-three years and knows how it is not to have any roots. She has watched her mother deteriorate with Alzheimer’s disease and has had to accept things she cannot change. She wants women to know when they seek God, with all their hearts, He will listen and show them the plans He has for them, plans to give them a hope and a future.
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