I have a major question

Dear Confused,

WAIT! God has given you a precious gift of purity and virginity. He gave you that gift to be used one time and for a very special purpose. The one time it is to be givenis on your wedding night. It is a wedding present that God intended for you to given to your future husband (one that he will value and cherish).

I know that free sex is the “in thing”, but God never intended for it to be so. The world has cheapened a very precious thing between a husband and wife.

The choices you make now will determine your future. We all make good choices andreap the benefits. We also make bad choices and reap the consequences. You will always be forgiven if you repent, but God will not remove the consequences of disobedience. Please listen to a mother of two daughters. I understand your confusion, but you must not give into this temptation.

I would like for you to pray and ask God to enlighten you as you read the following verses:

I Thess. 4:3-7
I Cor. 6:15-20
II Tim.2:22

If you are saved, you will want to please God more than man. The price iscostly, but one that is worth every penny. You may not realize that now, butGod’s way is the only way. Fornication is a sin and once you have sex, satanwill use that at his advantage to make you feel “Well, since I did it in the past,I have already sinned, so what’s the use.” Don’t even go there and give satanthat chance.

Sex is an act that only takes minutes but can ruin the rest of your life. Don’tcheapen that special gift God has given you. Don’t go with the crowd onthis one. You asked for help, so I know this is important to you.

Your boyfriend will probably not understand and he may even break up with you. If this is what happens, that is God’s way of telling you this young man is not the one Hewants for you. Explain to him, that safety comes in numbers and from now on you are not going to put you or him in that vulnerable situation.

I will be praying that the Lord will put a hedge of protection around you and keep youboth from satan’s snare. And remember the friends that encourage you to have sex willnot be around to pick up the pieces. You will be the one that has to carry the load and sowill your parents. Don’t do that to yourself or your family. It just isn’t worth it.

In Him,
Sandy Denton