Girlfriends in Christ Mentor Sandy Denton

Advice About Salvation

2011-08-20T16:45:00.000-07:00

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Dear Cynthia,

It seems as if God is knocking at your door. DO NOT KEEP THAT DOOR SHUT - GO TO IT AND OPEN IT!

The best choice you can make for yourself in life is to give your heart and devotion to Jesus. We are here on earth for such a short time but it is what we do in that short time that decides where we spend eternity. HELL is the last place you want to spend eternity.

I do not know what our doubts are, but I do know who causes them and that is satan himself. You have been under his dominion, and he doesn't want to lose you. I know because I was there until I was 32 years old.

I went to church weekly, I was a good person and I truly believed I was a Christian. Trouble was I didn't have a clue. At 18, I developed cancer of the tongue and back then it was a miracle I stayed alive. The main point is if I would have died, I know without a shadow of a doubt that I would have gone to hell. It wasn't until I was 32 that I realized that. God is merciful, but He is also a gentleman and will not knock your door down. He waits for you to open it and trust Him. Satan is there the minute you open the door. In fact, he can't wait to get in your house and cause havoc.

One question: What do you have to lose if the Bible is true and you accept Christ? EVERYTHING AND ETERNITY IN HELL!

What do you have to gain if you believe in satan's lies and do not trust in Jesus as your Savior? NOTHING BECAUSE YOU ARE GOING TO HELL ANYWAY!

I know those are harsh words, but they are true!

God doesn't ask you to understand everything before you become His child, but He does ask you to trust Him. He meets you where you are at and shows you the way one day at a time - one step at a time.

Also, you need to read the Word of God daily. If you are reading it and having trouble, the Holy Spirit will be your tutor. If you do not have salvation - you are on your own in trying to understand God's love letter to you. Salvation is the only way! I will be praying for you!

Sandy

Need Prayer for Marriage

2011-01-12T19:33:00.000-08:00

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Dear Mo,

Marriage is hard enough even when both are Christians. When one isn't, then it is almost impossible unless the believer is willing to do all they can on behalf of both partners. You see, you are in light and your husband is in darkness. It's two opposite worlds colliding. You cannot take a Bible and beat your husband over the head with it, but you can fall on your face before the Throne of God and ask for His wisdom, discernment and knowledge. You can not let the worst in your husband bring out the worst in you. Satan is alive and well and will do anything to ruin your marriage. You have got to decide this day who or what matters most to you. You are going to have to determine beforehand your strategy to fight this battle and commit to it. This will be hard because you are a female and we run with out emotions. This time you are going to have to run on your faith. You are going to have to ask God to be your husband for now until your husband is willing to change. Don't expect something from your husband that he is unable to give you while living in this darkness. The only hope you have is to win him to Christ by your love.

Right now you are in a tug of war and satan is winning. Give this to God, get in the psalms and pray for guidance everyday. Know your weapons in Ephesians 6 and use them every minute. Take each day one moment at a time and YOU bring the glory to God. Remember God is on your team but you have to die to self and be obedient. Love your husband as much as you can on your own strength. Ask God to help love your husband even though you are not feeling love. Try to remember his good points and why you fell in love with him to begin with. Dwell on his good points and pray for God to reveal his bad points to him so he can see for himself what he is doing.
I will be praying for you!

Your marriage is worth the fight but it will be a tough battle - you just have to determine to love your husband more than the world does so he will want to be with you instead of the world. If all your hard work doesn't work at least you have given it your best shot! From then on God knows the true story and knows you did your best.

In Him,

Sandy

Prayer for Forgiveness for Infidelity

2011-01-12T19:28:00.000-08:00

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Dear Hurting One,

I feel your hurt and the hurt of all concerned. Sin can sure tempt us and take us further than we ever intended to go. Satan has a way of making us think the grass is always greener on the other side and your get over there and it is not even edible.

From this point you have to fall on your knees and ask for forgiveness from God and repent. That is the first step. Then you need to not see the other man again in any way, shape of form. You have to prove to your family that you truly are sorry and your actions are going to have to speak louder than your words.

It will take time for the healing. Right now everything is being done out of hurt. You need to apologize to your husband and family in a sincere way so they know your are genuine. This didn't happen over night and it will not be made right over night. You have got to allow time for healing. Do your best to let your family know you are still there for them. You are going to have to heal yourself also. Get in the scripture - Psalms and pour your heart out before God and ask for his wisdom, discernment and knowledge. You may never get your family back but you will get right with God. After you have asked others for forgiveness, you will know through your spirit what God expects of you. The price will be costly but it will be worth it. You might need to get CHRISTIAN counseling and get in a divorce group! This will not only give you support but place you on the right path to recovery. The main thing is you stay in the WORD of God. If you are not in the Word of God you are not in the will of God. GET IN THE WILL OF GOD!

Pray to God to heal your husband and family so at least they can see you are trying. Take life one day at a time and one minute at a time. Never go the way of the world again. It never works and the price of sin is too high!

I will be praying for you.

Sandy

Daughter Involved in Gay Relationship

2010-10-27T17:10:00.000-07:00

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Dear Sharon,

As a mother, I can sympathize for the pain you are going through. There is so much garbage out there in this world and so many bizarre fixes for pain, it is not possible to protect our children from them all even though we would love to do so.

I do not know where your daughter stands with the Lord, but I do realize if she is a child of God, she does not know the Scriptures. Even though she may not listen to your words, I heavily suggest that you show her what the Scriptures says about homosexuality. Tell her this is what God thinks and not you making it up. As a parent, it is your obligation to God and to your child to tell her what the Word says. If you do not do this you will be accountable. You need to sit her down and tell her she can not even GO THERE! If she chooses to do so, you have done all you can do except stay on your knees before the Throne of God and pray for her repentance.

In I Cor. 6:9-11 "Or do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the Kindgom of God? Do not be deceived, neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor HOMOSEXUALS, nor theives, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, shall inherit the Kingdom of God."

The world spreads satan's lie that homosexualtiy is inborn. That is a lie straight from the pit of hell.
God would not make a person be born with a sin they could not repent of. If they were indeed born with that condition, there is no way they could have the strength to choose otherwise. I don't know about the world, but I do know my God is merciful and would not do that! In other words, homosexualtiy is a choice.
I once heard of a son asking his father, what is the meaning of life? The father's response was, "life is made up of the choices you make and the friends you keep." Truer words were never spoken.

As far as your daughter not having a boyfriend - the timing may not be right. God will send her the right guy in His timing and she is to wait for that timing! The choice she is making now definitely is- not God's will for her life now and the sooner she realizes the impact of the sin she is choosing the better. Our time on earth is only a dot in eternity and she needs to choose heaven, not hell! I suggest you make her get off facebook before word gets out and she has more offers from the wrong kind of people who do not know any better. May she have the courage to lead them to the scriptures. Ignorance is not always bliss.i

Other scriptures that pertain to homosexuality are:
Lev. 18:22, 20:13
Rom. 1:24-27
Rom. 1:32
I Kings 14:24, 15:12
2 Kings 23:7

There will be many homosexuals in heaven who has repented! That is all that it takes is repentance and turning from that sin! God wishes none to perish!

I will be praying for you and your daughter!

In Him,

Sandy

Advice For Teen Daughter

2010-09-27T17:43:00.000-07:00

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Dear Melissa,

If your daughter is loving the Lord then she is on the right track but she might be going the way of the world to find her place. In this day and time it is so difficult for one to know the true values that count. The world is upside down in values. First of all your daughter has got to find out who she wants to please the most - God or the world. God is forever - relationships with boys change daily. I once heard a father reply to his son's question of, "how is one's life determined?" His reply was - it is made up of the choices you make and the friends you keep - so be very careful about your choices and friends - they can make or break you!

Your daughter has to know and determine what she wants to stand for - or she will fall for anything.

If she loves the Lord - she needs to know his Word and what He expects of her. Ignorance is not always bliss. That stands true for everyone! I firmly believe if one is not in the Word of God, they are not in the will of God and if there is one thing we want in life it is to be in the will of God.

You need to sit down and have a heart to heart discussion with your daughter about what you expect her values and choices to be. Set the guidelines so she will have something to follow! I do not know when you want her to know the facts of life but keep your antennas up - things seem to be moving a lot faster these days and she needs to know in order to be prepared. That is your decision and one that has got to be taken to the Lord!

The most precious gift you can give your daughter is to pray specifically that God will give her His discernment, understanding and wisdom she needs to make the right choices. Pray His love and protection over her and keep a close eye over her activities. I had two daughters (both married now - what a relief) and if they got up at 7a.m., I got up at 6a.m. to remind myself I WAS THE MOTHER! I was there when they got home from school and I tried to make my house the gathering place. That way I could keep my ears and eyes open without them suspecting it! It was hard work but it was worth it. We set curfews and stood by them. Even in high school they had to be in at a respectable hour. End of discussion. WE set an alarm clock and it better be turned off before that curfew. We were awake but we wanted them to know we were watching!

I hope this helps! It's nice your daughter has shared these things with you! Communication is a blessing!
Keep those communication lines open as long as you can! Another thing to remember is no matter the situation try to respond and not react. You might have to tell her you have to think things over before you can come to a decision. That way you cannot be talked out of it so easy!

God Bless,

Sandy

Advice About Relationship

2010-08-12T06:01:00.000-07:00

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Dear Mercy,

I know this is kind of blunt but I say in Christian love that you need to fall on your face before the Throne of God and ask if you really love this man? I am married to a retired Marine and we moved 27 times in 23 years. My security was not in where I lived but who I lived for. I wish I could say that I was saved all those years and knew precisely what I was doing but I can't. I wasn't saved until I was 32. I got tired of moving and very homesick. I blamed my husband. When I did get saved God showed me Acts 17:26. He is the one that determines our boundaries. I could no longer blame Hank. He was the vessel God used to move me!

So dear one, what I am saying is basically, "God requires self sacrifice in true love - not only in our relationship with Him but also our spouse. When all is said and done where you live really doesn't matter as much as what you did in the name of love while you lived there.

I will be praying for you.

In Him,

Sandy

Balancing Home Life & Spiritual Gifts

2009-08-05T15:59:00.000-07:00

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Dear Consuella,

I will be married 40 years this November, so hopefully I can give you some advice. I do not have all the answers, but I know God does. That is who you always need to turn to first, then take it from there. If He puts it on your heart to then turn to others - that is what you should do.

First of all, I want you to know that God meets us individually as believers. No one else enters the picture. He meets you where you are at when you are saved, and He meets you individually when He calls you home. He never intends for our salvation, sanctification, justification or our future glorification to involve any body but you and Him. Remember that He loved you so much He sent His Son to die on the cross for you.

He knew you when you were created in your mother's womb, he wrote your name in the Book of Life, He keeps our tears in a bottle. He knows your going in and going out. He knows everything about you.

He will share you with others - especially our husbands and children, but not at the expense of His time with you. God is known as "Quanna". He is a jealous God. He is not jealous of your love for your family - He expects you to be the helpmate to your husband and a mother to your children - just not at the expense of His fellowship with you.

If you husband is a believer, He feels the same way about Him. It sounds as if your husband is putting more trust in his relationship with you then he is with God. You need to pray for that to be revealed to him. Let God reveal that, not you, as it might make you sound pompous (like a clanging cymbal), and I am sure he will not appreciate that, especially coming from his helpmate.
As God meets us where we are at, we have to do the same for our mates. I would love to say my husband loves to spend the time in God's Word like I do, but I cannot say that. He is not there yet and even though I want him to be, I cannot be his Holy Spirit, so I have to accept that. That is between him and God.

Pray about not being so vocal about your fellowship with God to your husband until you see He is ready to receive it. Living it out in your life comes through a lot louder than words any day. Just be yourself, love and serve the Lord as the Spirit reveals and be the wife God intended you to be.

As far as your writing goes, do it. Just do not discuss it too much in front of your husband. Do not hide it, just don't make too big of a deal of it because it threatens your husband. Your writing if a love offering for your Lord - so let the Lord be the one to make you feel good about it. By no means does God want you to stop pursuing your ways of serving Him - just be discreet until your husband is ready.

Pray for your husband daily - ask God to give him wisdom, discernment and knowledge. If that prayer is answered your battle will be won!

I will be praying for you Consuella.

God Bless,

Sandy

Anxiety Problem

2009-04-26T06:47:00.000-07:00

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Dear Chris,

It seems like your life is full of anxiety, not only with claustrophobia but also concern for your mother. I know that claustrophobia is an anxiety brought on by fear and when this happens you must immediately start calling out to the Lord. Philippians 4:6 , "Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication , with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God." If you cannot remember this verse, then start saying aloud the Lord's Prayer over and over until you calm down. Satan hates the Word of the Lord and can only stay around so long before it drives him crazy. Satan loves to cause us fear, because it gets a hold on our emotions and then we cannot think straight. Our mind starts turning in circles and he wins the battle. You must feed your faith daily and not your fear. This is why having a quiet time is so important. It reminds you that greater is He that is in you, than he that is in the world. Your God of faith will help you win your battles, but you must give them to Him and not go on your own strength. I am not clear as to what is wrong with your mother. This also has to be turned over to the Lord. Circumstances can definitely effect our lives but it doesn't have to steal our joy. You have to remember that sometimes God puts us in valleys so we will reach up to Him. I have never walked through a valley that I haven't come out stronger. I admit I did not enjoy the journey, but I knew and claimed that God was walking each step of the way with me. Read the Psalms, play chrisitan music and pray for peace and contentment. God is there waiting to help - let Him! Pray not only for your mother, but with her as well. You both need each other and God's presence at a time like this!
In Him,
Sandy

A Suffering Adult Child

2009-02-05T17:45:00.000-08:00

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Dear Lynn,

As a mother, my hearts aches with you. This problem with your daughter is one where you have to fall before Jesus and pray for His intervention. You may not be able to help her circumstances, but, as a mother you must be praying constantly! Our children become a ministry the moment they are born, and it carries over into their adult lives. As mothers, we want to spare them the hurts of life, but we both know we can only protect them for so long. I do not know where you are with your walk with God, but I do know God can see your mother's heart if you are His. If your daughter sees your faith, it might make her want her own if she sees it is enough for you. You cannot make her ask Jesus back into her life, but you can make her want what you have. I know you want what is best for your daughter and grandchildren but there is only so much you can do. If she keeps making the wrong choices, then God cannot bless her disobedience, but He will and can meet her where she is at. He is there waiting, but He will not interfere until your daughter repents and asks Him to. If this man is good to her and she loves him, they need to marry in order for God to bless their relationship. You both need to pray for this man to get a job where they can hopefully move closer to town where your daughter can have some companionship. Raising 3 little ones without an outlet would be hard on anyone (even Christians who serve their Lord faithfully). You might even speak to this man about how lonely your daughter is if you feel comfortable doing that. This is where we need to show her how big God is! Some people can keep their small God in a thimble, but if they know Him as they should, they would soon see He takes up the whole universe. If you have an extra Bible, give it to your daughter and tell her to reads Psalms daily. The scripture will give her hope! Also, if there is a church in her town, call them and ask them to visit her!. Many churches would be happy to do that! You can also buy her a little surprise just to let her know you are thinking of her. If you live far away, send her cards! Sometimes little things mean alot. Lynn, may God be with you while you travel this road with your daughter! Try not to get tunnel vision. In Acts 17:26, it tells us that God determines our boundaries! Maybe He has, but your daughter in this isolated place to bring her closer to Him.

God Bless,
Sandy

Finding A Friend In Isolation

2009-01-23T05:46:00.000-08:00

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Dear Lynne,

So sorry to hear about your circumstances. I was a military wife for 23 years and moved often. It was hard, but I did have the other military wives and that helped. I know at times I felt life just was not fair and my husband had his job and other men waiting for him. I had the boxes and children to get in school. I look back now and realize that God had determined my boundaries (Acts 17:26) to make me become the person He wanted me to be. I had blamed my husband for so many years and then while we were living in Japan, a missionary told me I was blaming the wrong person and gave me that verse. I did not like that very much because it was so much easier to blame my husband than God.

Loneliness is a tool of the enemy to get us down and depressed and feeling very much like no one cares. I know, I have felt the same way. Have you thought about volunteering or joining a Bible study? Whether or not they are friendly to you or not, you show them how a Christian reaches out to everyone with a kind word and a smile. You witness to them. Tell them you are lonely and ask if they have any suggestions. Do you like to read or do hobbies? The most important thing you can do for yourself and your husband is tell God. Ask Him to guide you in the direction where you can feel needed by others. Pray for a friend and get out there and do your best to stay busy. With it being a rural area it makes it hard but pray about that, too.

I am so sorry to hear about your little boy. Praise God you will see him again someday when you reach your heavenly home. What a homecoming that will be!

I know in my lonely valleys I got into God's Word and learned more about Him. There are some great studies you can do on your own if there is not one at church. Better yet, start you own study. In fact, ask the ladies over for dessert one night since they work. Or maybe you and your husband could give a barbecue on the week-end. You could also pray for the prayer requests at your church and send notes or call them to let them know you are praying for them.

Try not to take it personally, people are just too busy. They don't mean to be and most of them are probably unaware of your loneliness. Again, ask God to put some special people in your life that you can reach out to. Then hopefully they will reach back and take and become your friend.

In Him,
Sandy

Finding A New Church

2009-01-23T05:38:00.000-08:00

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Dear Jessica,

If you feel uncomfortable where you are attending the church, that very well might be the Holy Spirit telling you to find another. It is God's way of connecting us with believers who can reach out and touch your life.

Have you called the churches and asked how active their singles' groups are and if they have a Sunday School Class and Bible study that you could attend? That is how I found my church. I took out the yellow pages and called until I found one that I was interested in. It worked!

Also, you might go to their websites and see for yourself how the church might appeal to you and also see what special activities they might have coming up. I know it is hard to go by yourself but you have to do your part before God can do His. Ask around. Visit different churches during the day, Wednesday Nights or Sunday Nights. Sometimes when you go when there are not so many you have a better chance of meeting other people.

Most importantly, keep praying to God and let Him know how you feel. He wants you in church more than you want to go. Join some different Christian activities around your area, volunteer at Christian Organizations. Every city has them. You can also ask around where you work - you might find a friend that way. Hang in there and I know God will come through - just keep praying and seeking.

God Bless,
Sandy

Dealing With an Alcoholic Husband

2009-01-03T20:41:00.000-08:00

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Dear Sharon,

My heart really goes out to you. I had a father who was a real beer drinker and my mom was a tea totler.. We all begged him for years to quit drinking beer to no avail. Then one day his health was affected and he stopped cold turkey. He wouldn't do it for his family, but he did it for himself. I really think that the alcohol desensitized him so much he had no idea how much he was hurting us. He did love us and we loved him dearly, but not his drinking.

The first suggestion I would like to give you is to gather with your two teenagers daily, join hands and pray to God that your husband's problems will be revealed to himself. He is the last one to see it and the last one to admit it. There is power in prayer and just praying together will be a strong force to strengthen your family. Please try this. It makes them feel so much better to know they are loved that much. That way they will learn the power of the Spirit.

You are going to have to ask God to see you through this one day at a time, one hour at a time and some days one minute at a time. You need to claim His promises and trust Him to give you the guidance you need. Stay in the Psalms and cry your prayers to the Lord. I know you want to save your marriage but it will take time. You are going to have to change your thought process and it will be costly. You see as the mom, you are the one that has the most power to keep your family together. You are going to have to be the one to die to self in order to give life to your family (Romans 12:1)

I know it doesn't seem fair that you have to be the one to sacrifice when your husband is the one causing the problem. You see you have the advantage because in order to get through the day you are going to have to be in God's Word first thing to put your armor on. If you are in the Word of God, you will generally be in the will of God. Your husband does not have that blessing. He is living in total disobedience and doesn't have a clue. He is existing in the flesh but not the Spirit and the Spirit cannot get to him because he numbs himself with alcohol. That is why you have got to pray that God will somehow make his beer seem repulsive in his mouth and he will want to rid himself of it. With God all things are possible. I am not saying you will get the results you want but You will receive the peace of God because you have done everything possible to save your marriage.

You have done everything you know how to do, now let God have a turn. Turn your husband completely over to Him and let God have His way. You cannot beat a dead horse, it isn't going anywhere.

Also consider joining a support group with the kids and that way you will be better prepared on how to handle the situation. There are support groups in every town so if you do not want to go where you are known, travel to another city. You need help! Forget your pride and do what is best for your family. It will be revealed sooner or later and God will not be mocked. Your husband's sin will be found out one way or another. Please remember that alcoholism is an illness and has to be treated as one. Try to meet your husband where he is at, but don't let him bring you and your family down. You have to get help so you can keep your family together. Your family will definitely be in my prayers.

How Should I Handle An Abusive Ex-Boyfriend?

2008-07-22T10:39:00.000-07:00

Dear Heidi,

I know the issues you are dealing with now are very stressful, but staying in such an abusive realtionship would not be worth the price. There are actions you can take to protect yourself and your property.

For starters get a good Christian attorney. If you cannot afford an attorney you can call a Women's shelter in your local area that deals with abuse and they might be able to give you some advice. For now I would change the locks on the doors and try not to venture out by yourself for now. If your parents live near, you might want to stay with them until he quits stalking you. Whatever you do, stay clear of him and do not go back to him just because of harassment.

I do not know how your relationship is with the Lord. If you are born again God is your protector. If you are not born again, you need to seek salvation. Do not do this out of fear, but you need the Lord in your life no matter what and He might have brought you to this place so you would go to Him. Remember that greater is He that is in us than hethat is in the world.

What Should I Do As A New Christian Mom?

2008-03-24T13:25:00.000-07:00

Dear Michelle,

Welcome to the family of God.

Your life will never be the same and neither will the lives of your family. The first and most important advice I can give you is to be dedicated to spending time in the Word of God daily. If you are not in the Wordof God, you are generally not int he Will of God.

Satan will do everything in his power to keep you too busy to be in God's Word and to stress you out so you will not be the witness that God wants you to be.

Busy means:
B being
U under
S Satan's
Y Yoke

Also remember that you will slip up from time to time. God knows that and will extend you the grace you need when you repent and ask forgiveness.

Obedience is also very important whether we feel like it or not. Emotions can get in the way andreally mess up our choices. Go to God first and not to self. He usually knows what is best forus even though we do not undertand His ways of doing things.

As far as your children go. Let them see you read the Bible. Let them see you turn to God when trials enter you life and not turn to alcohol or drugs. You are to get your strength from God now and they need to see that. Mean what you say and say what you mean. If you cannot walk the walk and talk the talk, it is best to say nothing.

I will be praying for you and your family. May God not be able to bestow many blessings on you and your family now that you are His.

In Him,
Sandy Denton

Prayer and Encouragement

2007-12-14T11:00:00.000-08:00

Dear Father,

We come to you with praise in our hearts that this sister in Christ has rededicated her life to you. Hopefully, this is a true rededicated and the fruits of her efforts will be shown forth by her deeds, obedience, disciple and love for you. Let her knowFather the love that you feel for her and that her rededication is precious in your sight. Hold her in the palm of your hand and keep her safe. May she always rememberthat you are the one true God and that you gave your life for her.

In Jesus' Name,
Amen

Adoption Visa

2007-12-14T10:56:00.000-08:00

Dear Father,

We come to you and ask that this precious couple will receive their child before Christmas. What a precious and special gift that would be. They are so dilientlyand patiently waiting for this child and we know that it is in your heart that they be united.

Paper work is so hard to wait on when your heart is seeking someone to love.

Either way may they never forget about another baby that was delivered on Christmas Day so we could have a Savior.

In Jesus' Name,
Amen

Important Request

2007-12-14T10:50:00.000-08:00

Dear Father,

We lift up this precious lady named Penny and ask that if she is not saved that you will send someone to lead her to You. She has so many serious problems. Her sister is dying and we pray for intervention of salvation and healing. We ask that you be with her as she takes care of her elderly mother. We pray for protection for Penny and her 10 month child from any harm from the man that is the father. We ask that the taste of alcohol will become repulsive in his mouth. We pray also for her brother and ask the same for him. We pray for salvation for both their souls.

We lift up these 3 christian women and ask that they may conceive or adopt babies. That is so close to a woman's heart.

We pray for depression to be taken from her father and healing of the health issues but especially for the softening of his heart.

We pray for Rick who needs salvation. The sin issues are bringing him into Satan's domain and we ask for his deliverence.

Father, the hurt runs deep and only you can fix the problems your way. Lead someone to each and everyone of these people for salvation before it is too late.

We ask in Jesus' Name
Amen

Change of Heart

2007-12-13T11:13:00.000-08:00

Dear Father,

We come to you and ask that you confirm in this woman's heart that she is saved. After that confirmation I ask that you touch her heart in a special way and let her know that it is you who is drawing her closer. Reveal to her that a relationship with you calls for discipline and obedience.

Let her know that she needs the disciple to get into your Word daily and the obedience to carry out what she learns. Reveal to her that chances are if she is not in the Word of God, she is not in the will of God because Your Word is Your love letter to us and light unto our paths. Hold her in the palm of your hand and let her know that you love her in a special way or your would not be pursuing her.

In Jesus Name,
Amen

Business Closed Down

2007-12-13T11:03:00.000-08:00

Dear Father,

We come to you and ask for your intervention for her business. It is a shame that it was closed down for such a trivial complaint. We ask Father, that if this business venture is truly what you want for this dear person that doors will open and she will be able to keep her business. No matter what happens, let her accept it as coming from you.

In Jesus' Name,
Amen

Now In Oz (Australia)

2007-12-13T10:46:00.000-08:00

Dear Father,

We come to you this day and liftthis person who wants to serve you up to the Throne of Grace. We ask for finances to be supplied, protection, wisdom and knowledge as service is being done for Your glory.

In Jesus' Name
Amen

Engagement Called Off

2007-12-03T10:53:00.000-08:00

Dear Lord,

Please hold this daughter in your arms and let her know that you know all about this. Even though the problems may seem insurmountableto us, nothing is impossible with you.

Please help her understand that the timing may not be right for their marriage at this time, but that does not mean it will not happen.

When or if the marriage does take place, the foundation needs to be solid and with all the financial pressures, depression and other factors involved, it does not make for a sure foundation, but a weak one.

I pray that you will be with this couple and after a time of rest give them the knowledge and wisdom they need to glorify you by makingthe right decisions.

In Jesus' Name,
Amen

Shattered Family & Shattered Life

2007-12-03T10:49:00.000-08:00

Dear Father,

We come to you and ask for forgiveness, healing and restoration for this man. If his heart is truly sincere in this we ask that his life be restored to one of worthiness and it will be glory to you.

May he become a husband and father that will reveal you love and show forth your righteousness.

All will not be easy and the enemywill attack at every corner, but Father we ask that this marriage be saved and the wife and son will come to know you because of the difference in this man's life.

In Jesus' Name,
Amen

God's Will

2007-12-03T10:39:00.000-08:00

Dear Father,

I do not know all the details to this request, but you do. We ask that restitution and restoration be made to make peace and bring glory to you. There are wounds that need to heal and forgiveness that needs to be granted. Keep this dear sister brave but on her knees. We ask that you give her the grace to make it and the desire to be obedient so she doesn't backslide again. The only way to truly make it is to be in your Word daily. That way she will be in your will.

In Jesus' Name,
Amen

Marriage

2007-12-03T10:33:00.000-08:00

Dear Father,

We lift this sister in Christ up toyou and ask that you give her a clairty of mind. She is so confused and she is listening to everyone but you. Keep her on her knees and in your Word so she can have the guidance she needs in this situation. Let her be content and not in a hurry to marry anyone because until she receives your peace and wisdom, no marriage can stand. Calm her spirit and if she does not know you, please show her the way to salvation.

In Jesus' name,
Amen

Struggling

2007-12-03T10:25:00.000-08:00

Dear Father,

We come to you in the name of Jesus and ask that you help this single mom. The landlord's heart needs to be softened and the funds needto be provided. May she know you as her Jehovah-rapha - the Lordwho provides. Give her your knowledge and discernment with her finances andbless the lives of this mother and son.

In Jesus' Name,
Amen

Marriage Restoration and Healing

2007-12-03T10:13:00.000-08:00

Dear Father,

We come to you and ask that restoration, forgiveness and asecond chance be given to this couple. Marriage vows need to be honored and we ask that the other woman who is involved will be removed from the situation. Only you can restore the love and take away all the ugliness. The wounds are deep and it will take time for the healing but will be well worth the wait. Please let them both want to make this marriage work and do what it necessary for it to work. Let them think of the other first and get self out of the way and keep it out of the way.

In Jesus' Name,
Amen

Prayer

2007-11-08T10:59:00.000-08:00

Dear God,

We come before you today and lift this father and son up to you. The bondage and garbage that we carry around with us will not effect only us but the people we love. It is all a tactic of the enemy and God we are asking you to break the bonds that the enemy has around this man and to restore his son with a newness of life and to renew his young mind. We also ask your blessings on this woman of faith who is interceding on their behalf. Act as the balm of gilead and heal their wounds.

In Jesus name,
Amen

To keep the job I have

2007-11-04T11:07:00.000-08:00

Dear Father,

We come to you on the request of this dear one who wants to keep her job. It is so hard to find work that we truly enjoy and if we enjoy it we will usually excel. Please remove any and all obstacles that might be blocking the way and may you give her your wisdom and understanding no matter the end result. Let her know Dear God that you never close a door that you do not open a window.

In Jesus' Name,
Amen

Adoption Crisis

2007-10-29T14:41:00.000-07:00

Dear Lord,

Please let this dear couple receivetheir precious child that you havefor them. Show your sovereignty in this matter and perform a miracle to stop this government restriction.

In Jesus' Name we pray.
Amen

Need to rededicate to the Lord and healing...I am hurting

2007-10-29T11:24:00.000-07:00

Dear Lord,

We hold this sister up to you and ask you to give her the grace to make it. Please enable her to renew her mind daily and offer her body as a vessel of the Holy Spirit. No more drinking or smoking.

In Jesus' Name,
Amen

Update #1 - Adoption Crisis

2007-10-29T11:19:00.000-07:00

Dear Father,

Hear the hurt in this young woman's heart and perform a miracle sos he will be holding her new son soon.

In Jesus' Name,
Amen

Please pray for my house to sell

2007-10-29T11:10:00.000-07:00

Dear Lord,

Please intervene on behalf of both these single moms. Their heartsa re in the right place but finances are blocking the way. If this young mother is not able to financethis house, then send another one Lord to be placed in her path. One that she can afford. Please send a new buyer for this house so this mother can be released from financial pressure that can reallycause worry. You are their Provider and may they claim that promise and rest in your peace. Let both mothers do all they can and lay this matter at the foot of the cross.

In Jesus Name,
Amen

Please pray for us

2007-08-29T18:03:00.000-07:00

Dear Father,

We come before you and ask you to help this confused young woman get her priorities straight so this will not happen again.
First, Father she is not in your will because she is dating a nonbeliever and you tell us to be equally yoked.

Second, she was drinking to the excess and lost her ability to have you guide her by numbing her senses.

Third, she slept with this man being unprotected and is now worried about becoming pregnant.

She has repented Dear Father and hopefully she truly will fear u enough not to let this happen again.

She lost sight of the the fact that "you can choose the sin, but God chooses the consequences even though she is forgiven.

Have mercy on this dear one and please God do not let her be pregnant. Give her the strengthto sustain from drinking in the future so she will be able to stay in your will.

In Jesus' Name,
Amen

My relationship

2007-08-29T16:24:00.000-07:00

Dear Concerned One,

Let's hope that when you see each other again, the feelings will return. Sometimes when we are apart, we stay so busy and meet new people that our perspective changes for awhile. Hopefully,this is the case.

Whatever happens you have to know that God knows and if He wants you to be with this young lady and take her as your wife, then it will happen. If not then He is protecting you from an unhappy marriage. Better to part now thenafter the "I do". If love is truly in the heart, it will never die, remember that. You will be in my prayers.

God Bless,
Sandy

Confused

2007-08-29T12:53:00.000-07:00

Stealing might be acceptable in your neighborhood but dear one it is not in the eyes of God.

It sounds like you are a new Christian and do not have the solid foundation to help you make the right choices. First of all you do not know the truth that will set you free so you need to find out what the Bible says about stealing. Get a concordance and look of this subject.

Secondly, if this young man is impressed by stealing than you certainly do not want to pursuethis relationship.

You might need to counsel with your pastor to make sure that you are truly born again and you need to ask God into your heart and repent of your sins.

Stealing will have to become a thing of the past and not allowed in your life ever again. It is time to make right choices that will bring you close to God and not separate you from Him. No wonder you are confused.

You will be in my prayers and if you have to follow the examples of others, for the example of our Lord.

God Bless

Comfort, healing and wisdom

2007-08-21T18:12:00.000-07:00

Dear Father,

We lift up this one before you and ask that you give her your inner peace at such a time of loss. It is always so hard to understandwhen a loved one takes their life. Death is hard enough under normal circumstances. Please let her realize that people are staying away because they do not know what to say or do in this situation, but they are not intentionally hurting her.

Also give her guidance where this friend is concerned. Let her be firm where she needs to be and set some boundaries of understanding. Hold her close and let her feel your love and presence at this time.

In Jesus' Name,
Amen

Praying for a miracle

2007-08-21T12:43:00.000-07:00

Dear Father,

We come before you and lift up this young mother who is carrying this precious child in her womb. In Psalms 139:13 it says that you formed this child in the womb of its mother, so there is no doubt that you know every fact and circumstance that is involved with this precious child.

Father, we ask you for a miracle in this baby’s life and for mercy and grace needed at this time in this young couples’ life. Hold them close Dear Father and let them feel your love and power. Do not let Satan distort their understanding of this situation. Please Father let them feel your presence and let them know somehow you know, love and care for this precious child.

In Jesus’ Name
Amen

Unappreciated

2007-07-26T11:14:00.000-07:00

Please try not to get your self-idenity and worth from this young man who is letting you down. Iknow it is so easy to put all our eggs in one basket and expect this person to be the answer to all ourneeds but it just doesn't work thatway even in a marriage.

You have got to be the person God created you to be and not dependon a relationship to feel all the voids. I am sure if you would take a list of your strengths youwould see that you do pretty goodon your own. How many years did you live without this person and still had a life for yourself.

Evidently this is not the person God has chosen to be your mate so keep looking even though it is causing great heartache and depression.

I look back on some of the relationships and actually cringe when I think I could have ended up with them as my mate.

If he doesn't bring the best of you before marraige, it cerainly won't happen afterwards.

Move on to greener pastures. Be yourself and let the Lord feel your needs. He does a much better job of it because He knows what you need before you need it.

Urgent Prayer Request

2007-07-13T12:53:00.000-07:00

Dear Father,

We come before you today and ask you to be Jehovah –rapha (the God that heals). This marriage needs healing Father and from the sound of it so do the family members. Satan has a way getting in there and destroying the family. Like always, he makes the huband think that he needs to work harder and provide more money for the family when in reality they would much rather have him at home more. In turn the wife feels neglected and can become very lonely and starts building a wall between their relationship to hide her hurt. Once communication breaks down, the foundation gets a crack in it and over time, it begins to crumble. We thank you for the desire of this man to want to pick up the precious pieces of his marriage and put it back together again. We hand you those pieces God and ask that you be the superglue to hold this marriage together. Not only for the couples’ sake but for the love and well-being of their children.

What is needed is discernment, wisdom and knowledge for this couple so that the healing process will begin. Forgiveness must come first and then action must follow. Words are now empty and their love for each other must be more than words.

We lay this marriage at you feet and ask that you heal it and bless it and may both of them learn from their mistakes and not repeat them in the future. Thank you for being a God of second chances.

In Him,
Sandy

Adoption Process

2007-07-09T12:58:00.000-07:00

Dear Father

We come to you and ask that you put your arms around this young couple who are adopting one of your precious children and that you expedite matters speedily. I know that they are so anxious to hold this child in their arms.

We ask that you bless this young family and may you always be the Head of their home and teach them the Christian principles that are needed to raise their child. May they become a strong family unit and may you always be present in theirhome.

In His Name,
Sandy

Anish, India

2007-06-28T18:29:00.000-07:00

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before you and ask for your intervention as Jehovah-jireh, the Lord who provides. Please open the doors that need to be opened for this lady can provide for her family. Not only let her find a wonderful job with less stress, but also one that will relieve the financial stress.

In His Name,
Sandy

God's healing love

2007-06-28T18:25:00.000-07:00

Dear Father,

We pray for this young woman who is in a very difficult relationship with a non-believer. We know that this is not good for him or her because you want your children to be equally yoked. This young man has been hurt by false witnesses in the church and a bad divorce and is probably very bitter and angry on the inside. Please put a hedge of protection around his children for this bitterness against God will not show through. Please God intervene and do not let this relationship continue until he bends the knee and becomes your child. Give this woman the strength to do what she knows is expected of her. If not, she will be out of your will and then there will be more heartbreak.

In His Name,
Sandy

Single Mom

2007-06-28T18:19:00.000-07:00

Dear Heavenly Father,

We ask that you put your loving arms around this young mother and her children. We know that you love them and want to take care of them and be her husband and their father. Let her feel your strenghth, protection and provision. Do not let her feel incompetent and too lonely because this is where the enemy can do some damage. Do not let her turn to just any man for companionship and help, but let her stay in your will with your guidelines so she and the boys will not be hurt again. She is calling out for help Lord, please let her hear your voice loud and clear and feel your presence.

In Him,
Sandy

Please pray for Ethan

2007-06-19T10:25:00.000-07:00

Dear Father,

We bring Ethan before you and ask for a hedge of protection to be placed around him until you can get into his heart and make him your own. The company of this man is not good and Father we are asking that you put godly men in his path and bring him to his knees so he will look up to you.

Please soften his heart with the Holy Spirit and bring him to his senses before it is too late.

Give this young woman the patience, grace and discernment to know when to speak and when to keep silent. Lord heal this realtionship and make it one that will be strong and glorify you.

In Jesus' Precious Name,
Amen

Prayer for many things

2007-06-15T18:33:00.000-07:00

Dear One,

It appears that you need prayer and I will certainly pray for your requests. You, however, are on the right track and know your Scripture. Now you must claim the promises and rest in His sovereignty. Your God is a big God and will shelter you in His wings until the storm passes by. Just put your warfare armor on everyday and let God do the rest.

In Him,
Sandy

Need Help With A Friend

2007-05-23T17:15:00.000-07:00

Praise the Lord that you (one so young” knows and lives Ephesians 4:14.

“We should no longer be children, tossed to and fro and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the trickery of men, in the cunning craftiness of deceitful plotting.”

You are to be commended. You are at an advantage because you know the truth and thetruth has set you free. Unfortunately, your friend does not know the real truth. Youknow the expression, “you are what you are taught to be” and that is what is happeningto your friend. Her mother is as lost and confused as she is. They are taught Michael thearchangel is no other than the only-begotten Son of God, that Jesus Christ is not onewith the Father and that the Holy Spirit is an active force, not a person of the trinity.They have so many confusing thoughts and are fed lies from the enemy, especiallylies about hell and eternity. That alone is enough to scare one to death.

You are treading on delicate ground and must definitely be covered by the armor ofGod. You have got to handle this situation with gentleness, kindness and love. Youwill need a lot of patience because they believe this to be the truth. You have pretty much said all that you can and after you give them the 14 page letter, “letgo and let God.” When you hand her the letter, do it in love. Let theHoly Spirit shine through because He speaks louder than words. I will be prayingfor you, along with the other mentors, that the truth of God will be seen by themboth before it is too late and they will believe in the One True God.

In Him,

Sandy Denton

What Should I Do?

2007-05-19T14:38:00.000-07:00

For one so young, it appears that you have your act together and are travelingdown the right path and you are to be commended.

This young girl who has started the rumors definitely has some issues. What isso sad is she probably doesn’t have a clue of the repercussions her behavior willbring to herself and others.

Gossip wounds people. Gossips love to take their pieces of information “their tasty trifles” (Proverbs 26:20-22) and pass them along. They have so little to occupy their minds that they feed on another’s personal life. Often their motive is attention, or maybe they wish to put someone down to raise themselves up. Whatever the reason , it shouldnot happen especially in the church. That is not only a slap in your face, but God’s face as well. God, however is a good notekeeper and will deal in His own way with thisyoung girl.

You are right in wanting to protect your character. You will not only be protecting your character but that of the Spirit that dwells within you. You must be prayed up and have all your armor on (Ephesains 6). You must take someone with you. Maybe the youthpastor or a respected college student in the church with you. That way the truth willb e spoken and the situation handled with dignity.

Prepare your words and may they be “soft to the touch” and not cut into the heart.This will reflect not only your character but the Christlikeness in you as well.

Do not let this incident change your walk with the Lord. Their will always begossips around the corner. Just remember, if you have nothing to hide from God,you have nothing to worry about. Greater is He that is in you than he that is inthe world.

I will be praying for you.

In Him,

Sandy

Soulmate

2007-05-10T08:11:00.000-07:00

I know you are looking and anxiously awaiting the one that Godhas chosen for you. There are things in life that take time andwaiting for Mr. Right is one of them. If you rush God, then chances are you will not get paired up with the right man He has chosen for you.

Life is such a slow process sometimes, but God's way is thebest way. If you have been a christian for any period of timeyou know that God works on His on timetable. I will be praying for you that God will give you the discernment and patienceto wait for the right man and that He will also give you theknowledge and wisdom to know when you meet him. It will be well worth the wait.

Take one day at a time and do your best not to get ahead of theLord. Get your focus on God and serve Him daily and when you least expect it Mr. Right will walk into your life.

In Him,
Sandy Denton

In need of guidance, peace and provision

2007-05-05T10:29:00.000-07:00

Dear Concerned One,

I will pray for support from your Heavenly Father. He says that we are to ask, seek and knock and He will hear our prayers. I pray He will give you the peace and the joy you need no matter the circumstances in your life. I pray that He will open the doors for a legal assisting position so you can learn on the job and, last but not least, I ask Him that He will give you comfort from worrying. God does not want you to worry – He wants you to trust Him in everything – even the need for a car.

It is so easy to get caught up in all the details and concerns of life, but you must remember if God died for your sins, He certainly cares what happens to you.He knows what you need before you need it so rest assured you are in good hands. Let Go and Let God!

In Him,
Sandy

Faith, guidance and protection

2007-04-23T10:40:00.000-07:00

Dear Jesus,

This dear sister comes to you in prayer and asks that a hedge of protection will be put around her physically, spirtuality, mentally and financially. We all need your grace and mercy every day to make it through the day and stay in your will.

We ask that her heart be drawn closer to you and that she may hear your voice in every matter of her life. Give her the peace to be able to stay still and hear you.

We pray in your name,
Amen

My very ill cat

2007-04-23T10:33:00.000-07:00

Dear Lord,

We asked that you heal Mittens. Animals are your gift to us on earth and their companionship brings us such comfort. It is hardto let go in the twilight years because so much love and comfort as been shared over the years. We ask that Mittens will not suffer and your grace and mercy given in the hour of need.

In Jesus' Name,
Amen

Going through a divorce and struggling with finances

2007-04-18T12:03:00.000-07:00

Dear One,

I want you to take a few deep breaths and bow your head and go before the Throne of Grace. Ask your Heavenly Father to show His presence and give you the grace and mercy that you need to get through this crisis. The Lord certainly already knows,but He tells us to ask, seek and knock. Not only do you ask Him for His mercy but to shelter you in the cleft of the rock (like He did Moses) until the storm passes by. Do not for one minute think that God does not know or care what He happening toyou. If you are truly a child of God, He has your name engraved on the palm of His hands and He will never let you go.

Get into the Word and claim the promises that are yours as His child. Whether you understand or not, it is an act of your will that will overcome the enemy who is attacking you in your time of need. He is good at it and will do anything to bring defeat into your life. Stand strong and remember, stronger is He that is in you than he that is in the world. Get into Ephesians 6 and put your armor on. You are in a full fledge war and if you do your part, God will do His, but if you give into fear or self-pity, the enemy will will the battle – NOT THE WAR BECAUSE YOU MUST NOT GIVE UP. TRUST AND OBEY BECAUSE THERE IS NO OTHER WAY.

Your husband will pay for his sin in the end. Right now it looks like he is winning, but it is the ways of the world and that will be his only gratification in the end.

God will provide for you. It may not be in the way you are accustomed to, butHe will provide for you. Stay in the word and get with Christians to hold you up until this battle is won.

I am so sorry that you have to go through this at this season in our life but it is not in vain. You are paying the price of someone’s else’s wrong choices. You can do it because there is no other way out. God will see you through, but you must do it His way whether you understand or not.

In the end, God will unfold His blessings on you because you did it His way and you trusted Him in the heat of the furnace.

You will be in my prayers.

Wisdom and knowledge

2007-04-18T10:48:00.000-07:00

Dear Heavenly Father,

We bring before you this woman of mercy who is taking her board exam tobecome a nurse (your servant). She will need wisdom, knowledge, alertness and discernment. Make her mind alert and do not let the enemy fill her mind with doubt or fear. Let her pass with flying colors Lord and may this career position be used to glorify you and may she shine Your light by her actions, words and deeds.

In the Name of Jesus,
Amen

Deliverance

2007-04-18T10:43:00.000-07:00

Dear Heavenly Father,

We ask that you put a hedge of protection around Lorraine until this stronghold of the enemy can be broken. We know the only way that can happen is by the power of your Word and in the Name of Jesus.

The enemy has a stronghold over the lives of these drug addicts and they are so much in darkness that no light of truth can be brought for. We ask for the binding of the enemy over Lorraine and these people in the Name of Jesus and that they cannot have the victory in the lives of these people.

Send someone into their lives so the truth can be proclaimed and they will be made free. Let the truth set them free victoriously and that they know who won the battle for them. You paid the price on the cross.

Please clear their minds long enough so they can see and understand your grace and mercy.

In the name of Jesus,
Amen

Update: I Have a Major Question

2007-03-29T18:02:00.000-07:00

THAT IS FANTASTIC NEWS! It made my heart sing, so I can just imagine howthe Lord felt when you made the RIGHT choice. I am by no means making lightof the hurt you had to go through when your broke up with your boyfriend. Twoyears is a long time. Hopefully, he will look back on your decision and understandthat you did make the right choice, although that might take some time. But Iknow one thing he will have a high respect for you even though he may not show it now.

I know one thing, you made satan very upset. There are not two many youngladies (Christians included) who would have succumbed to the temptation. I know Godis going to honor your obedience, but you must be prepared because it mighthappen again. Satan steal prowls around seeking to destroy God’s children.

Remember stonger is He that is in you, than he that is in the world.When you do date again, just tell the young man from the beginning whereyou stand.If he makes advances anyway, show him the door as well.Well, done young lady! I am sure you brought a big smile to our Lord’s face.

Sandy Denton

Update #4 - Daughter that's pregnant

2007-03-29T17:56:00.000-07:00

Dear Concerned Mother.

Your prayer request will definitely be brought before the Throne of Grace. Where two or more are gathered we know there is power in that prayer. I know from a mother's heart how concerned we are for our children (no matter their age) and when they hurt, we hurt. Just keep praying and let her see your faith. That will strengthen her faith and that in turn will lessen her fear. Also remember that God knows them even in their mother's womb. Psalm 139.

In Him,
Sandy Denton

Please help me pray for

2007-03-29T16:24:00.004-07:00

We will lift Brian up to our Jehovah-rapha ( our God who heals) and for the women to havea wonderful time in fellowship. We will ask God's blessings on the school in Sierra Leone and for the Ethiopia connections. Thank God He knows and that He is the one in control for all these situations. Let them rest in His Hands,

In Him,
Sandy Denton

Struggling

2007-03-29T16:24:00.003-07:00

Dear Struggling One,

You do indeed have a full platter. The way to approach it is one bite at a time and taking every morsel to the throne of God and ask Him for discernment, wisdom and knowledge.

I believe every 15 year old has a self-esteem problem, especially in this materialistic world and having to keep up with the fashion and body figures of today. Take the time not only to pray for your daughter but do it out loud with her. Let her know in your prayers that she is special to you and God and in the long run that is all that matters. It may seem awkward at first but believe me it will be music to her ears and it certainly will make the enemy mad as a hornet.

Your husband admitting to you that he has this problem is a silent call for help. He probably realizes this is not the lifestyle for him and the guilt is probably eating him alive. Again in you can pray out loud with him, do it. If not, get on your knees and bind the enemy in Jesus' name and if you can ask your husband to see a counselor. He is seeking help. Let him know you want to help him.

I will be praying for you and your family.

In Him,
Sandy Denton

Wife, mother and realtor

2007-03-29T16:24:00.002-07:00

Dear Rhonda,

It sounds like you wear many hats and try to bring honor to God in all of them. That is very commendable. There is no other place you want to be, but right smack dab in the middle of God's will. His timing is not always our timing, but after all is said and done, His way is the best way. Just keep praying and I know the Lord will bless you and your family because you are trying to do it His way.

In Him,
Sandy Denton

Please pray for relationship, marriage and families

2007-03-29T16:24:00.001-07:00

Dear Lord,

I ask your blessings be poured out on this marriage. May this couple always realize that your plan for marriage is the only plan that works. May they also realize that marriage is like a triangle – they are the base and they should always keep their eyes on the top of the triangle where you are positioned. What God has joined together, let no put asunder.

In His Name,
Sandy Denton

Me and My Family

2007-03-26T15:55:00.000-07:00

Dear Big Sis,

Do not get discouraged. You can and will make a difference if you “keep on keeping on”. Your sisters may be too young to understand now, but if you keep calling, writing,sending them little tokens, and showing that you care, they will want to be apart of yourlife also.

Little things mean a lot and families mean a lot to God as well. Relationships can benutured and grow into a tight bond if enough attention and love is given to that relationship.

Hopefully, you will be able to see them in person from time to time, but if not sendpictures of yourself. Since they are younger than you are the responsibility falls onyour young shoulders. You are making God smile as He sees you care so much foryour sisters and He will bless your efforts (in His time and when your sisters areolder).

I will be praying that God will open doors and give you the insight to do what itis you need to do. Your heart is in the right place.

In Him,

Sandy

I have a major question

2007-03-26T15:24:00.000-07:00

Dear Confused,

WAIT! God has given you a precious gift of purity and virginity. He gave you that gift to be used one time and for a very special purpose. The one time it is to be givenis on your wedding night. It is a wedding present that God intended for you to given to your future husband (one that he will value and cherish).

I know that free sex is the “in thing”, but God never intended for it to be so. The world has cheapened a very precious thing between a husband and wife.

The choices you make now will determine your future. We all make good choices andreap the benefits. We also make bad choices and reap the consequences. You will always be forgiven if you repent, but God will not remove the consequences of disobedience. Please listen to a mother of two daughters. I understand your confusion, but you must not give into this temptation.

I would like for you to pray and ask God to enlighten you as you read the following verses:

I Thess. 4:3-7
I Cor. 6:15-20
II Tim.2:22

If you are saved, you will want to please God more than man. The price iscostly, but one that is worth every penny. You may not realize that now, butGod’s way is the only way. Fornication is a sin and once you have sex, satanwill use that at his advantage to make you feel “Well, since I did it in the past,I have already sinned, so what’s the use.” Don’t even go there and give satanthat chance.

Sex is an act that only takes minutes but can ruin the rest of your life. Don’tcheapen that special gift God has given you. Don’t go with the crowd onthis one. You asked for help, so I know this is important to you.

Your boyfriend will probably not understand and he may even break up with you. If this is what happens, that is God’s way of telling you this young man is not the one Hewants for you. Explain to him, that safety comes in numbers and from now on you are not going to put you or him in that vulnerable situation.

I will be praying that the Lord will put a hedge of protection around you and keep youboth from satan’s snare. And remember the friends that encourage you to have sex willnot be around to pick up the pieces. You will be the one that has to carry the load and sowill your parents. Don’t do that to yourself or your family. It just isn’t worth it.

In Him,
Sandy Denton

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2006-09-29T13:57:00.000-07:00

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